darling anj..i guess i have to teach you about a lesson or two So you are experimenting..which is awesome..most gals feels suicidal to let go of their first love and now you are talking about your third.. your mistake is a you have to let go of your past..your new guy had nothing to do with it and neither did you..its history..when you meet someone you think its worth your time..you have to present yourself as if he is only person that means to you..but just for the moment.. If you talk about your future that is so wrong too..cause god knows you might not like the same person in a different time or in a different situation..so just think it for the moment.. If he loves you ..his eyes can tell..no need to bring out the L word...but if you want him to love you..make sure to bring out the best qualities inyou that you've hidden ..not everything..be self sufficient..have your life priortized..and don't hang around like a puppy wagging your lovelit tail... sometimes its best to let go ...maybe there's a better package out there..and besides..love is a very expensive leasure..so don't let it get priced too high that you'll forever be in debted... love bf, gf, wife , hubby..they can be found everywhere but friends are more important..so try to look for a friend next time..cause a friend is worth gazillions than an enemy in the name of love.. having said all that, I think you still love him and want him back.There's no hard and fast rules. Even if you broke up bad, try to think about what was missing. Maybe you won't like him that much after a while. Maybe he will come back..The most important element is communication. You don't want the whole world to know you still like him. But still you need to communicate to him a. By first making yourself a li'l better..from grooming to u know..having a life and a great one without him. b. Just let him know once in a bluemoon what ou're upto.Don't ask about him. c. Call his frens over for parties..he'll be reluctant to drag in. d. never speak to him in public unless spoken to. e.find ways to be around him...like join the same gym with a different friend or...school or work int he same city..i'm sure it'll take time..but you'll enjoy it cause a..You will have a better life..b.You are telling hin you're watching him..without being spoken to. Dammit just pick up the phone and say you wanna see him this very minute..it'll save both of you from going around the bushes!!!!! P.s. this is all hindi film ko thinking haii...lol lol