san_diego_nepali, A shared knowledge, however convoluted, is much easier to deal with than an undisclosed knowledge, however pure the later is. Re listening to knowledgeable people, frankly, at this juncture, nobody is going to tell you things that you have not heard already, assuming you've been scanning Nepali cyberland once in a while. I think people go to listen to not for knowledge but for information about where does the speaker stand at this point. It will turn out some people are quick in adaptation, others are slow. फरक त्यत्ति हो ।