manab, it does not matter whether u r a grl or guy. i did not assume u 2 b either when i responded. but fyi, "manab/manav" both are considered male names and for females its mostly ("manabi/manavi") . not that it makes any difference to me. anyway getting back to the discussion portion of it: yes, i would have to agree with you in that in private/public sector in Nepal, there might be lot of issues. I am sure in last six months you have observed a lot and have already started making judgement (o: but anyway personally i would like the type of grl u mentioned. who has been here worked and gone through difficulties of life. Question is how many have chosen an easy way out or struggled for real. but its tough in life [ 1 has 2 go thru lot of shit] [crash and burn][gather] ================================================ again in exhaustion and exasperation, once again what go i know??? (o: