Thapap: For your information...i am a girl. i thought manab was a genderless name and i choose it because it does not belong to any gender. We are all same. Another thing is I do not care for the virgin stuff myself as long as the guy is honest and i am in love with him. Nothing would matter. But then i am aware of the stereotype Nepali men who like to go around with other girls, have fun with them but would do 'arranged marriage' in the end. Because they think those girls are innocent. there are men who do not even like girls who have studied abraod because they think they are not virgin or innocent anymore and relate the person as per their job position, etc. For example if the girl is doing in the job then she has some kind of relationship with her boss...etc. I am in States only since six months and have actually seen the corporate world of Nepal, and my explanation is based on my experience. But then these guys do not know that in reality, they need to be aware of those girls who their parents choose... i mean it is better to marry a smart girl who can be something than those lazy bumbs who are just waiting to be hitched....don't you think..