manab, if u r being realist then u would not have made this statement "go home and marry the virgin types" 1. what makes you think that you will find "virgin types" back home? 2. when was the last time you have been home and assessed situation there? Its not 1996 dear home [ if I assume it to be nepal] is not what it used to be. II part: "But I know........" there is a problem with girls, by nature [ this may be my assesment due to my limited exposure but.. anyway I am willing 2 take a beating on this], they seem to be changing their requirements [ just like upper management of a company]. They do not know what they want. for example: if you ask them about their past "then u r prying/not trusting." If u do not then "its not caring and not trying to understand" etc.. etc... III part : " they want to have fun ....." i am sure it goes both way. Grls also have fun. u think that they are abstaining from "fun" !!!! if u think that then all i can say is hypocricy is brewing. Yes, in most cases guys are like that but being abroad from major portion of last decade, i have seen and met a lot of ppl who do not fall in ur stereotyped class.. ================================================== all in nostalgia but as always what do i know???? (o: