speaking of setting up guys and girls, i just happened to check out the matrimonial section here at sajha to pass the time. i dont think most of the matrimonial posters read the threads, but here's my thought on it anyways. quite a few of the the posts suck (particuarly the guy postings) for the most part, because guys write down one lousy sentence like "i am a nice guy" or "i like to make friends" or my personal favorite "i want a good partner " in their personal statement. if i were a girl checkign out these ads, i would not bother replying cos A) i dont know jack about the guy to begin with B) the guy cannot market himeself well. another thing that tickled me was that quite a few males chose "female" from the pull down list (whose default choice is male, btw). if i were a female, i would not wnat a retard who either A) does not know his sex B) has a short attention span and cannot even fill out a form correctly.