Good article, reality! I knew this days was coming. I read some of the posts and was more suprised than the article itself that our men are so hypocrats.Whille you want our nation to progress (which means to achieve Western standards) then why can't you deal with it, it's pros and cons. We don't live in isolation, kids will learn it from MTV and Brittny Spear anyway. They are bombarded with Western influence at every step of their life. My recent surprise was when I visited, there was a huge influence of Latin culture from TV. Nope we don't have any Latin community, it's the TV that brought it. There's nothing wrong with adopting the culture but it's a very far distant land we have nothing to do with it. Insecured? Yes. God...don't we have our own culture? Indian is fine, even Chinese. Latin????? Let me assure you that Salsa does not teach anything beside sex. Those problems are inevitable with modernization. In fact I would say that we need to adopt Red Light areas right now and be safe like Amsterdam than being consevative and ending with more problems like US. In Nepal, kids and mostly grown ups are having sex like crazy without their spouse and family knowing anything. Nothing to be surprised. There is already transvesdikes, gays and there more are coming, nobody can stop it. The only thing matters is findin solution. Now do want to adopt hypocracy or logics? My open view.