cmmn kankai take it cool.. i do it all the time,,find nothin wrong with it,,the degree of swinging between good and bad was so much that i have no respect or any good feelings towards that so called first fren any more,...all i feel now is that i was in love with a bitch..haha.. i guess you probably dont feel same,,anyway all i say is that take it cool,,if someone keeps posting pics and all then it's not your fault,,u are curious and u did what u wanted,,talking about riught and wrong i guess bitching out is not a right thing to do...or perhaps it is,,dont know