Posted by: Hushpuppy July 23, 2005
Life after divorce
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Ashu, thanks for this thread..at least now these are real interviews with worthy people ..unlike the other senseless thread.. As a child, I'd always feel that parents stay together. Most parents are selfish in Modern Nepal. They get married barely in the age of 20s. Give birth by 21. Then they start behaving adulturous, Partying, cheating, and what not between 22-28. Or in the same breadth they go to college, or start working. In other words exploring life. The child or children is obviously ignored all along. From the examples it proves that divorce in Nepal is occuring primarily because of Early marriagges and immaturity.As for the kids life after the parents divorce is worse, cause obviously the single parent would be absent from home to make living.The issues pertaining to the divorce were because of the selfish parents, who never thought twice about the kids' before bringing them to the world and most of them say things like I would have divorced many years ago if it were not for the kids, I would married again if it were not for the kids...blaming the kids of all their problems. I do respect women who are taking control of their lives specially the divorcees. But I respect those more, who understand the meaning of for better and worse, who make marriage a working institution for them and their kids. I encourage all the divorcees posted here to look at marriage positively, and having had an experience - the puppylove kind, they ought to go for second marriages - the reallove kind. All the best.A married life after a certain age is inevitable and it is proven that married people lead a longer and healthier life.
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