Z, suck it up, Chuck! You seem more worried about people validating or judging your life's path. Listen to Stiffy. Don't listen to the negative folks...they have their, not your, interests in mind. Try to move TOWARD your future rather than run from/toward your past. And all this existential angst won't do you one bit of good, so let it go. This one's for you: Darling you got to let me know Should I stay or should I go? If you say that you are mine I'll be here 'til the end of time So you got to let me know Should I stay or should I go? It's always tease tease tease You're happy when I'm on my knees One day is fine, the next is black So if you want me off your back Well come on and let me know Should I Stay or should I go? Should I stay or should I go now? Should I stay or should I go now? If I go there will be trouble An' if I stay it will be double So come on and let me know This indecision's bugging me Esta indecision me molesta If you don't want me, set me free Si no me quieres, librame Exactly who'm I'm supposed to be Digame quien tengo ser Don't you know which clothes even fit me? Sabes que ropas me queda? Come on and let me know Me tienes que decir Should I cool it or should I blow? Me debo ir o quedarme? Should I stay or should I go now? "Me entra frio por los ojos" (y es verdad) Should I stay or should I go now? "Me entra frio por los ojos" (y es verdad) If I go there will be trouble Si me voy va a haber peligro And if I stay it will be double Si me quedo va a ser doble So you gotta let me know Me tienes que decir Should I cool it or should i blow should i stay or should i go now if i go there will be trouble if i go there will be doulbe so u gotta let me know should i stay or should i go ~the clash