dariwal, i assume that you mean the USA embassy. i suggest you try nepalikochoro's suggestion and inquire once again with the appropriate embassy staff. the worst they can say is "no." well, actually, i imagine they could say much worse things, but i digress. if the straightforward approach fails, and, assuming that you lack personal contacts at the embassy, you might try having one of your cuire amrikan friends inquire on your wife's behalf. sadly, this false appeal to "authority" often works in such situations. in fact, i always take the cuire i know best to the embassy, and it has always been smooth sailing. best of luck to you and your wife.