Marriage should not about finding a person who thinks the same way , who likes the same food, who has the same political leanings as you do ?etc etc etc.. Also, it should not be a quest to find your Mr or Ms. Perfect. Diversity and uncertainty bring thrills in life. Otherwise, what?s the fun?? Different thinking (by different, I don?t mean extreme views) of the partners is what makes marriage wonderful, but it also largely depends upon up to what extent the partners are willing to compromise.