I appreciate everyones ideas and opinion. The reason to start this thread was not to offend or annoy anyone but to realize ourself the changes we (nepalese) are going through stayin away from home. Everyone has their valid points and arguements. I think I am open to views and ideas as long as it is reasonable, practical and realistic. Also we are lucky to see and actually feel soo much cultural difference in our life. From traditional nepali to modern society abroad. Obviously we should adjust to our surroundings but we need to also remember where we actually belong. No matter how long we live abroad we cannot ignore the fact of who we are and our traditions.