Ma yahi mauka ma arko kura ni bhani halchu: Anil jyu, If somebody else had written what you wrote, I wouldn't have bothered myself with a lengthy reply. However, you being a graduate student of IR, and who has the potentials to represnet Nepal/or the organizations you affiliate yoursleves with in the international arena in future, criticizing (and "insulting") [note: I put insulting in "", because its MY view] the collective cultural traits of the people did not seem right to me. Not that you have to take care of my cultural sensebilities, but I decided to voice my concerns anyways. Take it as a constructive criticism, not just criticism for the sake of criticism.