I'm not trying to blame anyone.. we all are free and independent. we can do watever we think is right for us. But why can't nepali guy come out, socialize and make friends.. If we look at our society and our future most chances are we want to live our life with one who has same cultural values and thoughts.. Has anyone seen how paki guys react when they see paki girls talkin with other national.. It's jus an example and I don't want nepali guys be controlling and extreme like paki but at least we can come out and let girls show we have good intentions (as we always have) of making good friends.