Shukla-ji, Excellent informative responses. Enjoyed reading them. ***** My limited experience is that people like Nattu are unfortunately too common among us Nepalis. These people do the stupidest of things. Yet, when someone tells them how their acts come across, these people then get hostile, aggressive and defensive. Where a straightforward "oh, sorry" would have made the right amends, these people go on burying their heads in sand -- embarassing the rest of us Nepalis. Ke bhannay? Ideally, I'd like to beat up these people. But since I don't live in an ideal world, the next best thing is to ignore them or tell them "none of your business". oohi ashu