Thanks a lot for all your feedback, and thanks for being honest. I see that in most of the cases people are scared of commitment because-- what does commitment bring? It brings an end to your do-it-myself life. I mean we are single, happy and master of our own and then there comes a day when every step you take and every decision you make has to be determined keeping someone in mind. Okay I admit, maybe it is because a distrust in guys due to my past experience, or maybe just because of the "what ifs" as said by gurl_interupted, I hold myself back. BUt coming across the same situation, insecurity was what I felt. As Matrixrose said just talk. Well "words dont come easily;)" Nirman, the reasons you gave are pretty good about why people dont want commitment. But do you think the reasons are strong enough to make a girl fall for you but you back out when the relationship reaches the second stage where you either have a choice to let go or known to be "together". I feel weird to think about the heartaches the letting go would cause. I think captain's reason for not giving commitment to any Sally or Nina is plausible, but what about the people who are afraid to EVER commit? They cringe when they think of a partner for "life"!. Just wanting to know... and evryone's comment and views are really appreciated. Thanks for sharing :).