Hush dare it., and then we will see who is scared fo whom here. ;) Anyways back to original poster: Anj sis, *hug* that's annoying. I can't stand it when people don't have the courtesy to at least say what they feel .There's absolutely no excuse for that. Do it. The worst she/he can do is say 'no'. ''I think the risks that it won't work out don't measure up to the possible benefits.'' And after that don't act pissy with her/him either, or like you've already been rejected. Cause this will simply be childish. Since I can imagine what made you say this. So listen now, in such cases people must talk to the person and finally they will feel that a HUGE weight will been taken off their shoulders after that. The mental torture and depression isn't worth it. Even if they say no, they will be feeling a lot better without all the worrying shit. You need to let your emotions out. SIMPLE! PS Anj sis, you should closely watch the post from Captain, he is being honest here, and most people usually always have a reason behind it, like he also seems to have one. If someone is scared of commitment ask them why and talk to them without trying to judge or convince them, and if you can?t deal just say they them good bye. No need to go further. It will just lead to depression, which really isn't worth. And don't forget everything happens for a reason. Enjoy your life, Its too short to get messed in this whole relationship thing. DAMN SUCKS !!