Everyday email turns to 3 times a week email no phone calls absolutely. In all her emails she mentions about how much she has to study and he being a scholar himself give her advice about how important it is. It?s been 2 yrs they have known each other, there is still some email transfer from both sides, but the phone call stopped. One day he decides to give her surprise visit to his college. So he takes few days off from his work as vacation and buys the ticket and travels to the N. west coast. He goes to the hotel and calls her, as per the dorm receptionist she has gone out. He refreshes himself and goes to the town thinking he?d see her somewhere. He sees a bunch of college gals and guys in a restaurant. He has his cap on all the way down so no one could really see his face properly. He walks in and little that you know she is sitting with her friends. First, he hesitated a little -thinking she would recognize him. But she is so involved with her friends that she never sees him. It was his first day so he was a little nervous seeing her for the first time so I let it go and drank some beer in the bar with joy and went to his hotel. He then emails her that night from the caf?-internet and let her know that he is in her town. Would I say it was excitement of fear she calmly says, where are you? He says downtown in one of the hotels. When did you come? He says yesterday. Then he says that he saw her at the Pub. She with fear says what? Then goes on to say how long are you staying? He says I am going back tonight, just came for a day or so to see u at least, finally got to see you that are good enough. Sorry that you have to leave so quickly, he says why you wanted to see me? No answer!! Anyways, I will write to you when I get back. She goes ? okay! He returns back in a little delusion with empty heart. Her finals were coming so he thought that may have been the cause ? but why was she out with her friends? Hmm he kept thinking and then wrote to her another email. So how is everything? She writes, I am preparing for the final exam and she can?t wait so she can go back home she is home sick. What are your plans for coming to USA? She says may be after my 2nd yr. He is a little frustrated now, he is not getting what he wants, he then one day writes to her. My love are you serious about both of us, do you still love me? She says why you ask such question; all I know and have are you. Then why don?t you write or let me call u as much? She goes ? you have to realize I have to do very well in the exams and that is what my parents expect from me. He goes ? yes you are right I need to disturb, email or call you any more??. The next email gets heated up ? she writes, what are you saying you don?t care about my career? If that is what you think of me then FINE?. He stops writing or calling her for sometime to see if that makes any changes on her feelings. Little that you knew she does write but not in the manner she wanted him back.