same here rajankhanal i even bought a book on How to say No. It didn't work. Added to that misery..they taught us how to be polite and soft spoken all along..it aggrevates most people out here... and then one fine day i came across a work colleague Amy. Very insecure and uptight. But then the way she faked her 8 hrs at work was amazing. Powder Puff and put up a face. No, but you know i'll think about it. No, i can't hurt your feelings but i gotto do my thing. It's a pain saying no to you, but sorry i have to..Youre wonderfully wrong...No thats not possible. Then I started faking mine by giving a thoughtful pause...so the other person knows that i don't agree. After our work, we'd both sigh and say to hell with fake life...hope it works for you too..