..... "My question: In other words, Salokya has already decided that what these people are into is, ahem, "असामाजिक काम". But who gave Salokya this right to publicly decide what is सामाजिक and what is असामाजिक? " ---> "असामाजिक काम". In my humble opinion, the word असामाजिक defines itself. HAMRO SAMAJ LE NAITIK RA perhaps KANUNI ROOP MA normal NA MANEKA, or abnormal MANEKA ra SAMAJLAI CHAYETI PURAUNA SAKNE KAAM. I might not agree with his way of putting forth his journalism skills online; however methinks, it does not take a rocket scientist that WIFE SWAPPING is hardly सामाजिक. Be it in NEPAL or in WESTERN WORLD. (( Even though it essentially involves sharing ones spouse with "SAMAJ"; so to speak :))) Here, Salokya is not saying, they smoke cig, drinks alcohol or for that matter eats beef in foreign land. Wife-swapping is not known, in my knowledge at least, as a normal or even a decent thing to do by the majority of the people. It is just a plain and simple FACT. However, if they have no problem and does it at their leisure, behind close door; so bet it. As, long as they keep it between themselves and the willing; it is none of my business. To each; their own. Salokya ji, tapailai chai yeuta request, Kripaya abibahit keto lai tyo group ko member until-he gets married banauna milauna paryo. Yeso jodd dinu paryo "Manager" lai. Bihe garechi chai group bata nata todaula, ahile ta sewa ma hajir nai hunchan hola aja ka responsible yuva barga; Samaj Sewa ko lagi :). re kya. Waiting for more lively/entertaining discussions. -IndisGuise:)