something seriously is up with your gal's mind...sex is sex and good sex better for any gal..but if she's putting you off ..then all you gotto do is.talk her mind out or if you don't like talking and if she's not eyeing the neighbor in your alley.....completely ignore her for a day or two and ask her to go out with her gfs and she'll bounce back better...shit i'm sounding like an agony aunt columnist ..hehehe what the heck