I agree with rythm. People always tend to say bad things when they are not together. In the beginning that significant other is the love of your life...how can that same person one day (after being broken up) be the person you hate the most. yes, things happen and in anger we all would like to say things that are bad and hurtful...but that's really not the way to go. In order to move on, you have to accept the facts and it probably didn't work out for a reason. Everything at the end happens for a reason ..a good reason at that. so let it be....and move on. What you had will always be there.....learn from the mistakes and never regret that you once loved someone. It is after all a process...