I am sure that almost all people can relate to your story one way or the other because almost everyone has been t hrough the experience of having to let go of someone u claim to love. But the maon thing is to move ahead and not blame the other person. WHen you were with that person... he/she seems to be the best and once you are not together anymore... you are more than willing to spit venom on each other.... that not the way it is supposed to be... the best way to get over it is to accept the it was a mutual thing... both were at fault and u were not meant to be... u just were not right. Ppl dont lie.. its the way u percieve things that make a difference. So leave what had happened and try to forget the past.. live in today.. maybe will be more helpful in forgetting the yesterday..