i totally agree with zalim..a friend is not necessarily love..love not necessarily the hubbyy.. my philosophies for marriage is knowingly for sure that he;s gonna be my partner rest ofmy life...a partnership to the minute details like understanding when to make the coffe and when to give space....i hope that i make the right decision when marrying..marriage therefore is a permanent varaible..i hate people marrying ending in divorces..specially when kids are involved..so take as much time before decide.. love is a result of a playful heart...sometimes i have bf just cuz the y are so nice that i casn't say no..sometimes i just need someone to be around with...sometimes i need a date so badly to attend that function..sometimes its just curioussity what cud happen if i went out with this person..no past no future..usually it ends in short span of time..and when the notion of love wanes out we become normal people..we're mostly friendly but with lovers, hey you don't wanna go back the same trail..unless you seriously want him back..love is a random variable Frens..hey you either get along with a person the first time or you don't, once you do there's no looking back...bad times good times..a friend is a friend is a friend...you might kiss a friend and you might kill him too..but he's a friend..girls and guys should be friends..for reasons beyond what i can grasp-from helping to grooming, shopping, datin g, finances, the interiors, barbeque dinners, knwing the toolkit in the car, fighting against other guys, places to go..i guess friends are eternal and not variables... yet i wudn't date a fren because he knows too much..too boring...and i won't marry my date..unless.im pretty sure i can still keep the charms even after i marry