hancyguy, i am not a gal, but here are my thoughts anyway. The girl thinks that you are OK, but is not sure if you are the one. you might be her backup, which is why she does not reject you outright. so she is stalling, hoping for something better. if nothing better comes along, she knows that she has a fall back option. there are plenty of fish in the sea. i say you should start looking for other candidates. if none of you succeeds, you still have each other as backup. but this is not the ideal situation because the girl does not seem to be completely in love with you....but hey, few marriages are based on everlasting true love. i may be wrong here. there is a possibility that she does think that you are the one, but is not ready to commit to marriage yet. you need to confront her face to face and figure out the truth...i hope i am wrong about the stalling, in which case i will email you my address for the wedding invitation...