hahah sense! One tangent view here! everyone in the other thread and here seem to come to one conclusion that Hotstuff should leave the gal alone because its her life or whatever, even though he has acknowledged that she is his friend. Now now! if its so easy to tell others to mind his own business, then why is everyone so obsessed here to hear, read and comment on what hotstuff has to say. couldn't people mind their own business now? He's an anonymous public poster for starters. oh i see the logic~ Leave your friends alone. Just don't care whether they fall prey to predators, are in irreconcilable conflicts, or even dying. yes, mind your own business, but go fight and argue with anonymous posters with full fledged wisdom! GHACHHHHHHHHHHHI! JHAKASSSSSS!!!!!!!!babal.com! :)