Netaa ji.. Everything has positives and negatives right? I am just writing down the negatives. I understand what you are saying though....it's good if you want the best for the person and that person just needs some inspiration or motivation. Wanting everything to be ideal is great if it can happen, but if it's not something your partner wants then it's not good right? But i guess that would fall in the category of not being a true love. Coz if you truly love the person then you would let the other person do what they want to do whether it is what you want also or not. thees_keta if you are in love then go for it.....enjoy the moment...what's there to lose right? :-D