HotStuff ji - Your post reminds me of the 1989 movie "When Harry Met Sally." There Billy Crystal tells Meg Ryan point blank "men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way," and Meg Ryan retorts back, "That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved." And the debate goes on until Billy boy finally confesses what he meant was not the act of sex rather the thought of sex. Whether you realize it or not, HotStuff, that's exactly what is happening here. You assume this Nepali lady to be your friend but deep down, in your heart of heart, you see her as a girlfriend-in-waiting or perhaps a wife-in-waiting. The cortex of your brain is thinking about having sex with her. What else can explain your keen observation of her desirous physique and your nethanderal reaction to her promiscuous sex life, which after all is her business. To be fair to you, HotStuff, there is something to be said about dating dynamics of Nepali men and Nepali women in America. When a Nepali guy tries to court a Nepali gal and gets spurned his instant reaction, like yours, is "oh, she thinks that Nepalese men are not good enough for her." That my be the case or may not be the case. For Nepali women, or rather women from traditional societies, dating and pre-martial sex are more complicated issues than for Nepal men. A Nepali woman with a strong libido will probably finds it desirable to date and have pre-martial sex with white boys and black dudes than a Nepali hero, unless that Nepali hero has long-term potential, because with foreigners there is no expectation of a long-term commitment. I have seen that happen quite often. Nepali women dating Indians, Bengalis, Whites, Blacks, Hispanic, you name it, in college, and then marrying a nice Nepali guy and living happy ever after post-college. HotStuff, remember the saying "we can't choose our family but we can chose our friends." Given that you are offended by the Nepali woman's sexual habit, which frankly speaking is NONE of your business, I don't see a point why you are still friends with her? Suck it up and move on. Find a Nepali woman friend, with or without big boobs, who shares your views about sexual abstinence.