god you being her friend and b*tching about her already dammit...whats wrong with you? if you are true friend ask her why you think whaterver you think..now wudn't that make you stupid...she may have slept with ppl..but then..i guess they were her dates..and you don't come into that category so don't expect girls to strip right infront of your eyes..just because you know..that they might have done it with some other guys....your proly not her type and she has self respect and respects you as well unlike you.. as for choosing brides..do what you want who'se stopping you..i'm sure she wiull chose hers too...i wish all guys were gays too sometimes because gays tend understand females so much better and as a course about girls watch sex in the city, will and grace and other sitcoms regularly...a girls who dates is not a slut but one who has a life than people bored out of theirs..