bahunis and bahuns are nice people (in general, with the exception of girija bao, and like minded folks). i once had a bahuni girlfren. she had a long nose and a sharp tongue to boot. so everytime we got into an argument, she would come down on me like an eagle comes down on a little chick scurrying for cover under the mother hen's wings. anyway, i realized i was getting less and less assertive, so it was time to get the hell out.