yes every one has high expectation (an ideal thing, choice, career, life, etc). ..but expecting that all the time, from everyone is just plain wrong. It's reality folks...there is no such thing as an ideal anything. If you have a gf and you have this picture of ideal girl you want....you will never be happy. You will always compare and compare and never be satisfied then at the end you will be being selfish only caring about what you want........ and in true love..or if you really care about the person then you can't be thinking about what YOU want.... there!!! PLAIN & simple...!!! People who do that ........GET A LIFE!!!!