AuetiKT People define love or true love in an ideal sense (or people are idealistic about it) because it is hard to attain or achieve to its perfection due to the fundamental nature of reality that reality almost always works against the some trying to achieve that perfection. The same rule of nature applies against "perfect happy life". IF anyone achieves that level of perfection it is like "living a dream" to that person that gives deep inner peace and satisfaction.The other aspect of it is that if someone achieves that level of perfection he/she will definately be adored/admired whatever or at least be remembered by others. The optmistic note is: If you aim and dedicate yourself to reach for the sky, prpobably at least you might reash the tree tops. Same thing applies for "love or true love".