Can anyone give me a credible answer please? John, I am a silent reader of your articles which is always good and well scripted. Sometimes it feels like your story is somewhat similiar to mine, like having crush with ....( on Koirala's story),dont get me wrong, i dont have crush with Manisha Koirala but someone with... and also my father used to work in government office so we have to go with him in all those districts that he has postings. So each and every district that i visited with him, i had big time crush with one girl from each district.... you may be familiar with that, Mostly your company will be son/ daughters of other Hakim ka chora chori... because you dont know anyone in local communities first. About Man equally loving 2 women and woman equally loving 2 men, I do think the same way why can't we? Is there anything wrong to be loved by 2 women( say A and B) ...or sharing my love equally to 2 women, the answer is NO... there is nothing wrong to share your love in 2 women but ( i hate this word BUT), what A think is you loved B more than her and same thing B thinks You love A more than her. Now there is Jealousy between them A and B.. and start having misunderstanding between them... something erupt between them... now being a Man, you have to listen to the problem and try to slove that one as well, If you take a side of A, B will think, You love A more then her thats why you are taking the side of A and same will happens if you take a side of B. They dont care whose either it was their mistake or not..... Bro, I think you have heard this Nepali UKhan, thats exactly happens ... deuta dunga ma khuttaa rakhyo bhane, khola pani tarna sakinna... so life is like that as well.... I think you know life more than me.. I think woman, they can share everything but not the love of their husband and they do not want their husband loved by someone else either. I will tell you one small story here, it was like a year ago... I used to work at mall and while working at Mall, you can see thousands of girls every day. There is no big deal and one day, one girl came to me, she was nice good and we had good conversation. I asked her, lets go out one day... and fortunately that day was friday, so we both agree..around 8 pm, i meet her at Rosyln and we went to Georgetown, while walking on the street, on Friday night at Gerogetown, you will see thousands of beautiful girl walking on the street, and its a guy thing, you cant stop looking those girls and all of a sudden, she holds my hand and start walking with me... i just look at her face and she told me, "Dear if you are walking with one girl, please donot ever try to look another girl" so a girl, which you just meet doesnt want to share you, with other girls.. so forget about your wife. No matter how much you try, they wont let their husband to see other girl or share love to other woman.