Thanks Nirman, While I was writing this anecdote, I was thinking parallely about relationship between people, I cannot understand why can't one love two people at the same time? What if I was married....loved my wife and loved janice too? I would never leave my wife for Janice, but would not leave Janice for my wife either. What is so wrong in it? I would love both women equally, impartially....If a mother loves two kids at the same time, why cannot a husband love two wives or wife two husbands. What is so dirty about it, why people call one a pervert if he has a relationship with two women/ men?I mean a strong relation which is more than limited in sleeping together. I can understand that a one night stand, if one is comitted with another female/male is a crime. I can also understand that having an affair with another female/male......a clandestine affair..... while one is married.... is a crime. I denounce divorcing one's wife/husband for another person blatantly. But why cannot all three people live in peace?If they cannot....it is not commitment....it is posessiveness. I talk about this issue to my wife often...tell her if I went my way and she went hers... she loved a man and I a woman...and still feel happy for each other... What is so wrong in it? Since when did we start fearing the society? Why cannot one be comitted to two people at the same time. She thinks this is a frivolous remark, but I ask this question to all my friends...mockingly...but serious at heart. For those evil minds, I am not talking about an orgy........ Can anyone give me a credible answer please?