John I emphatize with your situation. Nice read. That's why I never create any relation of that sort. I mean didi baini yeta uta. Aba badhyeta le garnai pare arko kuro natra no 'chanasa'. Whats the point of creating new relation with emotion/obligation attached and when more often than not, it is bound to be lost in oblivion. But I assume that's just me. I hope your Neema sis is doing fine. Indisguise:)