Nobody cares about what the femminists think. They are ussually disgruntled lesbians anyway. Most nepali women believe in traditional values anyway, so they want a husband who is a man, and the nepali woman wants to be the wife who is a woman. They both are suppossed to share equal work, just different jobs. Not all American men divorce. Just because you think America is so unloving and everyone is so selfish in your biased mind, does not make it true for everyone. Every country has problems. At least most American men arnt sexist shovinest pigs who think women owe them cash on the spot for a marriage. As if the men DESERVES money if he will even THINK about giving his love. An American man who is a good person will provide for his wife and treat her special and love her unconditionally. He doesnt charge money. The money the parents give does help them start a good life together, and thats it. Its not a mandatory fee!! I know there are a lot of good nepali men out there as well who arnt like what has been explained on this thread. But the fact remains there are more women in nepal then men so some women will have to go outside of their nationality and even outside their race to find a good man. So I just suggested Americans if they ever come across a good man of American nationality. We arnt all bad.