I have always been surprised by what thugged out posts but here I feel that i shud intervene just a little. He is so worried about what the husband might feel if he reads this thread and so on.. well in the first place dun u see it being said over and over again that there was another lady involved in all of this?? I mean dun u think it hurt the wife to find out about the extra marital affair the man was having??? You talk about the wife being bad in bed.. the husband cud have expressed this. I am sure that there are ways that problems like this can be solved. Running to another woman and divorcing the wife is not the only solution. jeez... when it comes to some men why are all issues involved with bed and their own selfishness and satisfaction?? Didnt the man realize anythin during the 10 yrs. of marriage??? is it so easy for a man to just say that... hey i am not satisfied so i move along... to hell with your feelingsa nd to hell with all the consequences!! and moneyminded ji... what do you mean by sacrifice??? How long will be a woman be taken a a statute of sacrifice... the man get involved with other gals... asks for divorce and the woman is supposed to sacrifice?? WOW... thats seems a bit too weird to me... a woman has as much rights, ego and identity as a man does... so the man does things without thinking about anything and the woman shud sacrifice no matter what... dang... she has to live her own life though... ppl should broaden thier mind and start thinking from different perspectives.