Every time somebody points out the obvious, feminazis start screaming civil liberties and other such horsecrap. My now divorced colleague(and a staunch liberal, fyi) tells me he would have preferred living in victorian times. No wonder. American men are marrying foreign-born ladies in droves for a reason. Sitara's post of course was based on the premise that her good friend is right, and the husband is wrong. I see a lot of clairvoyants on Sajha these days. How do you all know what he is going through? Miss Cleo told you? You got your own stack of tarot cards? Give me a break. Let's stop with the gossip mongering. Who knows, the husband might be reading this thread. He got his own issues and we can't know with 100% certainty what they were. What are you supposed to do if the wife sucks in bed? Men **have** the right to divorce too. Cut him some slack. It's just a he said she-said sort of feud. Nobody's right. Let them feud.