beggars can't be choosers.................... hahahhahahahahhaahha you are soooooooo funnnnnny...(then you were looking now you have choices) anyways try blind dates...its one thing you should do here..enjoy the date by the end of the day you can figure out whehther you'd get along or not..if not slip off courteously..and no hang ups but you'll at least get to treat yourself good for the day ( from grooming to getting a drink).........and thats it... ok since i 've done you two favors by now sanjay help me out on this one..how to get rid of a guy without any hassles????