hmmmm!! dont get frustrated....it happens. looking all those thing u said i wanna ask u smth... do u play games??are u intersted in sports...not like chess,video games etc etc.i mean basketball,football ,swimming etc etc.? anyway..this is happening to u coz u lack self confidence.dont think abt what people will think if u say smth...are u scared if someones bully u or make fun of u?? being reserved and enjoying it is different but being reserved and getting frostrated shows lack of self confidence in u. why do u feel everyones ignore u???why do u feel they think u are cold and arrogant??coz u feel it urself. concept nai tyahi banaunee ho bhanee taa who will see u are friendly bhanera if u dont show them what u really are?!!hoina ra.....bholi dekhii hasne ani hi bye garne hoina:@ kura garnu man lageko cha bhanee kura garnee anii man chaina bhanee nagarnee usle k bahncha usle k sochha bhanera sochne hoina:@:o) show them how friendly u are.how sweet u are.....build up some confidence mr:o)go and play some sports.....u lack fun in ur life:) fun is very very neccessary to build up self confidence.... anyway thats all i wanna say...u can crack ice after u crack wall of reserved attitude u have.get rid of that fear which u have deep inside ...u know what i mean:o) i am sorry if i offended u... as a fren to sweet and friendly batash...which i am sure u are:o) ruIna