"What girls really want?" Now isn't that a broad brush with which to paint a picture? My point is, there are many trigger and turn on points depending on individual preferences. And ofcourse the level of tolerance on the girl's part dictates what would be considered acceptable, likeable, loveable and even addictive for her. Let's for a moment move on to a finer brush stroke and ponder upon "What does your girl really like?" or even access the negative space of "What doesn't your girl really like?" This way Guys (and girls)might come up with insightful cues or miscues on what a girl/guy likes. This, because "All men are not dogs" and all "Girls are not bi*ches"!