This thread looks like generating a kind of public interest. Now, hancyguy wants to present his real problem. When I proposed to a girl, she said to me that I am intellegent and simple and she want to have my type of boy friend but she cannot because she is already committed to some one. Hancyguy then proposed to his class mate and got a green signal. Now that girls wants to reopen that proposal and have put me in trouble. Tell me you experts, what shoudl I do? Can I have both of them?