People have different experience and preception to tell. No one is wrong, gals are complex metaphor. The more you want to understand you, the more you don't understand. One of my friend used to say that if you understand what a gal wants by 60% you are the great. My God! I will fail if it is the exam. My experience is that gals use different decision processing methadologies to come to what they actually want. And by the time they decide what they want (funky guy vs. gentle guy, bangalow, car etc.) it becomes late for them. If s gal comes back and say that she loves you now, she got it right. But you know what, you are the the same you used to be then.