Oki let me start by myself now so that you can agree and disagree with what i got to say hehe. The important part is to receive undivided attention, show us you care, regular mails, emails, phone calls, pamper with gifts, good sense of humor, gentlemanly chat, always remember our b'day/anniverssary, shower with us flowers and other spontaneous romantic stuffs, give your shoulders to lean us whenever we need them, a healthy sexual life etc but the most important thing above all is be honest and be what u are. It is also nice to be treated like a lady and have doors opened, I also will do the same for him. Each person gives equally in the relationship. We each do those''little thing'' for each other, not because it is expected, but mearly because we wish to bring joy and a feeling of being special to the other person. I love intelligent discourse and because of that require someone who I feel is as intelligent as I or more so. This way we can learn from eachother. No specifics as requirements for what I need other than treat eachother as people, friends, with respect and as already mentioned above all, be yourself, regardless of how.