All right guys...here i m again...but i want to change the topic slightly...Specially from rhythm n rose...and other gals...but guys are welcome to put their comments... Well the story of mine goes like this....I was more than happy with all what i have...kaam chalau programmer's job..i could earn enough for a normal life...and loving gf...she is in nepal studyin....after couple of months "sallah/sujav" and effort she finally agreed to come here to be with me and continue her studies...and i was soooo happy..infact we both were... in the mean time, while c was preparing to come here...i got a life time oppertunity..i got a very good job..(60K+car+health cover). But for that i got to sign contract for at least two years and should work in some asian countries. Accepting this job means..i m out again for 2 more years more over my gf has decided to leave everything and come here to start her studies again...This was the hardest decision i ever made in my life. I thought from heart...I love her very much and she has decided to leave so much for me to come here and if i go at this time..this is not fair for her....So i dropped the job offer..din't sign the contract, i thought i have ok job now n if c comes we would be together and if i have skill i could get another oppertunity definately. I thought saying my gf that i have sacrifice my life time oppertunity just for her love..would be cheap..would be act of taking credit by myself...so i din't tell her anything about this. But the hell...now c started sayin..c can't loose her time and career by comin here..c too has her own life and ambition...c can't start all her studies again just to come here...I WAS like " changa bata kaseko jasto"...n now c gets irritated whatever i say.. The girl who used to say thousand times that only I understand her most in this world..now started sayin i don't understand her at all.... I suffered a lot...How selfish people could be...but still i haven't told her that its not only C who is going to compromise with situation...I too have sacrificed my lifetime oppertunity just for her love and to be with her..I still don't want to say this to her..i think it would be like forcing her to come here coz i have sacrificed... What i used to think...what a gal needs...LOVE LOVE , trust and faith n care from guy..I did all what i can to give these to her... Now u guys n gals please suggest me what should i do...I m like shattered and feel.."jasko lagi yeti garay..usailay nai dissapoint garyo"... TELL ME the solution guys....