Here i too agree with coffees thoughts.... gals and boys are not different but they have different social roles acording to culatural aspects It is best when both understand this...according to the social and cultural aspects both boys and gals should behave... I have been seeing too that gals are making multiple relations when they are abroad...and in return...guys have only one comments..." tyo keti ta kati keta sanga hidi...bhalu vaicha yar"...this is why because..gals have forgotten their social boundries...society never accepts when they go around multiple relations.... i don't say..when guys do that is allright..its not right in guys case too..but with the constraint of the society we live...when gals flirt around that becames her life long impression.... if gals need equality..it should be in terms of work..career... khana pakauna, club ma janay ani complete freedom ma equality khojnay hoina ...if gals needs equality then work like man do, take responsibilities like man does..handle lifes complexities like man does..when things like these comes...then gals hide them back of thier bf/husbands shoulder...saying u r man..u should take care of...they don't think equality there...but the hell they need equality in khana pakaunay and club janay ani doing exposures...its a shit man... ONe thing everybody including gal should understand... according to nature...man are to work and woman are to take care of house...but with the development...gals are getting career oriented too and that is very good, gals are geting independent..that is also very good...but yo sabai garyo vandai ma gals should not feel like "napaunay lay kera payo...." and shouldn't forget what is thier main responsibilities..what thier boundries and responsibilities in society.... keti haru jati sukai equality vanera chichyao vanay pani...the fact is that.... when gals roam around and try to be more equal to boys...n does multiple relation..then c will only get one comments..." tyo ta bhalu vaicha...ek thau ma kahilay tikna nasakni"..but if the guys do the same...no body ..will care of...THIS IS THE REALITY and THIS IS THE FACT with our society...and nobody on earth can change it... so it is better, if gals knows their boundaries no matter how independent they became..they should always remin within the boundaries of social and cultural line...otherwise its only the GAL who is goin to suffer..... sorry if i hurt somebody..just sayin the truth of our society....