Oki birkhey dai.. i do agree that a gal should not leave the guy in that case.. I mean of course if they are in love with each other and everyhtin... Tara do u seriously think that gals do that all the time? I mean a gal has to be unhappy if she is leaving a guy.. there has to be some apparent reason... y would a gal otherwise leave a guy who is so loving and caring and on top of that... she loves the guy back... Khai I dunno hai.. I think that if two people think that they are perfectly fit for each other no such things happen.. if that was the case (all gals leave their guys because they find someone who is more appealing).. then the world would not be the wway it is. I know that when a relationship starts... everythin seems to be exciting and happy.. tara how can a gal even think abt another relationship if she is HAPPY in her present one? khai i duno what you saw and I dunno if any gal has really done something like this... I know that it is much easier to fall for a guy when a gal is experiencing a bad relationship.. Tara why would a gal EVEN think of another guy if she is HAPPY? thats what I fail to understand!! Khai maybe I did not get what u said.. tara in my view a gal would never dream of another guy if she DID love her guy and was HAPPY with him