Rhythm here i m not talking about troubled relation...what u have said is 200% right for both guy n gal if they are not happy with each other..in that case...noone should bound to each other and keep the realtion on compromise coz..compromise are for some time..not for whole life... But here i m talking about...change..that brings in gals from getting close and sharing her personal things with other guy. lets take an eg.... U and your bf are happy...definately no body is perfect...both of you have good n bad parts...once ur relation gets older...u both will know about each others good and bad side...nothing is perfect...definately u both want more but u both are happy...with what u have... Here enters another guy...a friend of you, he started liking u regardless of ur present relation..then what will he think...definately to break u up coz ..man are dogs...u know..i agree that... Then just to make u feel...he starts doing all good things u like, start showing a hell lotta care then ur bf...( he can do this coz he knows this is only to make u in his web for short time)..so suddenly u start comparing...( u should agree that in every relations begining there is exitement a big exitement and at that time..people only c good parts neglecting bad parts)...and once u start comparing ...once u start sharing..then Disaster...don't u think so... OK now tell me....is it good to search for better one if u have already one??? ok u love ur bf , he loves u a lot too..but tomorrow if u find better one..will u leave ur bf??what i say is ...if guys feel that gals have compared him as better one then it just a need click to break gals..don't u think so???? c as i said nobody is perfect..but is it good for a gal to leave just for the sake of finding better one..in such case..don't u think gal will end up her whole life always in search of better one...one of my friend explain this very good u know... This all happens only becuase gals are emotinally weak so they are very vulnerable...as i said gals are like WAX they don't have to do anything...it doesn't depend on WAX it depends on knife how hot it is to cut WAX...hoina..and knife are guys..very oopertunits...once they feel it...they will cut it... I have seen a lot of cases..where gals left guys for no reason..and guys kept for suffereing...i think once guys are serious ...means serious...hard to change..but for gals...they are vulnerable even they are serious...just by showing her more attention...and care...one can easily make himself comparable to her bf... i do want to continue this topic with you...i feel like i got a chance to talk from gals side on this....so do say what u feel... don't u think whatever i said has some sense of logical analyis and reality...