Oki birkhey dai.. point noted.. I agree that in a relationship.. if there is some other guy the gal gets close to.. then she tends to compare him to her guy.. and of course at that time... she will only see the good side of the guy.. tara IF a relationship is not good... should the gal still put up with the guy??.. I know that guys are oppurtunists at times and that gals should think a lot.. I think a gals biggest fear is to fall across a guy who is only there to take adnantage.. And i also agree that if a gal is into a relationhship and it aint so good she should not go running to some other guy.. the thing i dun agree to is that... well if a gal breaks off with 2 guys kina ki they werent good.. or things din work out.. or somethin as such.... then she shud NEVER fall for a guy??? Shud the gal stay alone?? La lets say that relationship doesnt work again re.. ani should she sacrifice all her future and everythin just coz ppl are going to say that she is a playa or something?? I mean I know that a gal should think like a whole lot before gettin into anythin... tara... IF it doesnt wrok out she should think abt her happiness.. not abt what other ppl could say.... when I meant a puppet and jealousy I din mean that a gal should always be able to flirt with other guys or anythin.. of course if the gal IS IN LOVE.. she WILL NOT flirt with guys.. tara saano saano kura ma keti lai doubt garney and everythin is not good ni.. and to think that the gal SHOULD always listen to you and other mentality hunchha ni.. i think thats wrong.. Well as a whole.. my point is there should be some level of equality between men and women.. guys do try to take advantage of a gal who has been with many guys.. and the gal SHOULD think abt this side of guys.. and they should think a lot before getting into a new relation BUT only because ppl might talk bhandai ma a gal shouldnt stick to a guy she is not happy with... Did i relate to your prob..? or did i create a whole new scenario??